
I was having lunch with my wife a few weeks ago and during the meal I was observing the other diners. There was one man in particular that caught my attention. He was a middle aged fellow in a button-up shirt and slacks reading the paper. He seemed to be lost in his reading, mindlessly chewing the same bite for longer than usual.
As we finished up , we gathered our trash and headed towards the car. It was then that I noticed what had captured his attention. The obituaries.
I’ve always wondered why people read them. Everyone’s answer is different, but I have the sneaking suspicion that some part of our brains are looking to see if we are in there. Or at least pondering what would be written about us.
It is a good thing to understand that our time is limited. We’re only given so many days and we ought live brave, good lives. But some people seem to be so obsessed with the idea of everything ending that they forget about living right now! The same can be said of our great ideas.
Because you know what you get when you don’t let something rest in peace? Frankenstein.
Like me, you probably have a metric ton of ideas that never happened. You’ve probably launched something awesome and watched it be ignored. You might have made the the amazing thing and seen it laughed at as the awful. Whatever the story, they’re dead now.
So here’s a tip. Let it be dead.
Because you know what you get when you don’t let something rest in peace? Frankenstein.
Instead, let’s try something different. Let’s move on and create something new. Go ahead and code up that new app idea, redesign your site with your real personality, and give life to something new. Stop obsessing about that old dead thing and bake a new cake covered in awesome sauce!
Share This Entry with Your Favorite Social Networking Sites.
BestChristianDesign is helping give churches inspiration for their next project. Good call, guys.
Seth Godin reminds us to enjoy and take advantage of the uphills.
Stop announcing your new project. Just do it.
Rock and Roll people, Rock and Roll.
To all you staff designers out there, here’s a link for you. (via @ryanlascano)
Fascinating look into the music business.
Derek Sivers posts some great advice about balancing your life.
@ryanirelan Hate that, too. Was hoping it would grow on me but too many panes all over the place. Too much like my desktop :D
I've noticed I'm not noticing my spelling errors. I need more sleep.
The best Content Management System for designers. Feature rich, completely customizable, and easily extendable.
Basecamp is the smarter, easier, more elegant way to collaborate on your internal and client projects.
Christening & Wedding Cupcakes UK
October 12, 2009
hi,
great post.
thanks a lot for sharing the information.